Sex and Intimacy

This chapter explores the way men talk about the impact of illness on sex and intimacy. This covers not only erectile dysfunction, but also barriers to intimacy caused by physical symptoms. I discuss how men’s concerns go beyond sexual satisfaction to the impact on their partner’s satisfaction, romantic relationships, and confidence. The chapter finishes with an exploration of how men approach the topic of sex and intimacy, the language they use, and who they feel most comfortable talking to.