What Bullying Did to Me

Bullying has a real impact on real people. The stories presented in this chapter demonstrate the devastating impact of their experiences both professionally and personally. Champions lost their love of the job and often dreaded going to work. Many lost confidence and doubted themselves, often questioning if they were to blame. The loss of friends and collegial relationships was hurtful. The personal consequences were profound. Lack of sleep, increased drinking, and relationship problems were frequent. The force was so strong it led to suicidal thoughts or attempts in some instances. Understanding the real consequences of bullying is essential to having any chance of addressing it.