<p>This study addresses the challenges of near-field interference suppression and resource allocation in extremely large-scale multiple-input multiple-output (XL-MIMO) communication systems, particularly under dense-user scenarios. We propose a quality-of-service (QoS)-aware joint user scheduling and power control scheme. Leveraging the spherical wave (SW) characteristics of near field channels, a dual-domain interference suppression strategy is developed by analyzing the spatial correlation of beam focusing vectors in terms of both angular separation and distance constraints. Based on this, a spatial correlation-based scheduling (SCS) algorithm is designed. By integrating this user selection strategy with a dynamic power allocation mechanism, the proposed approach optimizes the sum spectral efficiency while ensuring the user QoS. This framework is further extended to modular XL-MIMO systems. We show how modular deployment can enhance spatial resolution and develop an adapted QoS-aware user scheduling algorithm, called modular SCS (SCS-mod), for this architecture. Simulation results validate that the proposed algorithms significantly outperform existing schemes in terms of sum spectral efficiency and the number of scheduled users, especially under high user density and high transmission power conditions.</p>