<p>This article examines the dynamic relationship between the self and the spirit, with the aim of drawing implications for the practice of pastoral care within the context of Christian spirituality. I argue that pastoral care should integrate psychology and theology, with theology as the foundational framework and psychology providing essential support. To achieve this integration, I have employed James Lapsley’s analysis and interpretation of the self and the spirit to propose a ministry of pastoral care that is both theologically sound and psychologically effective. A deep understanding of the psychological dimensions of the self, alongside a theologically grounded understanding of the spirit and spirituality, is essential for pastoral caregivers to enhance both their theoretical insights and practical approaches.</p>